Nikita Vyas- Nikita Vyas
Introvert? Extrovert? or Ambivert? Which spectrum do you fall under?
Just to let you know I’m offering a free Session till 18th of March only for Introverts to talk about the problems they face because of introversion.
The more time I spent discussing these problems with women the more I realize that most of them were unsure whether they’re introverts or just have a self-confidence or conflict issues. (Yes! it’s not the same)
So, in this article I wanted to share a questionnaire with you to help you assess whether you fall on the introvert or the extrovert spectrum.
This questionnaire is taken from the book –
“Quiet – The power of introverts in a world that can’t stop talking” – By Susan Cain.
If you’re an introvert this book has a ton of information that can do you a lot of good!
Alright, let’s start assessing –
Answer each question “true” or “false”, choosing the answer that applies to you more often that not.
________ I prefer one-on-one conversations to group activities.
________ I often prefer to express myself in writing.
________ I enjoy Solitude
________ I seem to care less than my peers about wealth, fame and status
________ I dislike small talk, but I enjoy talking in-depth about conversations that matter to me
_______ People tell me I’m a good listener.
_______ I’m not a big risk-taker
_______ I enjoy work that allows me to “dive-in” with few interruptions
_______ I like to celebrate birthday’s on a small scale with just one or two close friends or family members
_______ People describe me as "soft-spoken" or "mellow"
. _______ I prefer not to show or discuss my work with others until it’s finished.
_______ I dislike conflict
_______ I do my best work on my own
_______ I tend to think before I speak
______ I feel drained after being out and about, even if I’ve enjoyed myself
______ I often let calls go through voicemail
______If I had to choose, I’d prefer a weekend with absolutely nothing to do to one with too many schedules.
_______ I don’t enjoy multitasking
_______ I can concentrate easily
_______In classroom situations I prefer lectures to seminars
The more often you answered true, the more introverted you probably are. If you found yourself with a roughly equal amount of “true” and “false” answers, then you maybe an Ambivert – yes there is such a thing.