• Nikita Vyas

How to take the first step despite feeling anxious?

Hey there Welcome to episode 3. Before I start today’s episode I want to thank you guys so much for being so supportive of this podcast and your response has really motivated me so so much. I’ve already got a list of things I want to record next and I can’t wait to share that with you.

If you’re new here. Hi, I’m Nikita Vyas. I’m a psychologist and a Mindset coach. I work with Creatives and Introverted women by helping them become more confident, prevent burnout, bring out the best version of themselves and their creativity.

Today’s podcast or whenever you listen to it is about taking the first step

Whether you’re starting something new like a new work out, a new job, a new business it can be extremely scary. The thought of starting something new means we’ll have to do something we haven’t done before or do everything all over again. Repeat the entire process, going in without any kind of certainty, dealing with the same emotions, new emotions, working hard on it. The negative thoughts that come along.

You know a few months ago, I had a free productivity session for women. People who had an issue with getting started these sessions for reasons such as –

“What if I fail?”

“This is going to take a lot of time and effort, I’m not ready for this”

“Maybe I need more time and training”

“Maybe I’m not as creative and smart as I think I am”

“This is going to fail”

“Nobody will want to buy/see/listen/approach for what I’m doing”

“who am I kidding”

“I can’t do it alone” and much more…

From my personal experience and from working with women once had these fears and who now thrive in their field, it is totally normal to get the jitters when you start something new. Most women have told me that the jitters only confirm how serious they are for this endeavour and how important it is for them. Taking this feeling as a positive sign and they just dive into it. What a mindset right?

But hey There’s no blue print for what steps to take to get started. It totally depends from person to person. Some people need a boost of confidence, some people need a way to be more organized, some people simply need to shut them from the noise around them and get started.

Your immediate first step doesn’t have to be your only step or the perfect step. Speaking from experience, I write at-least 2/3 drafts before I actually feel okay about any article, I put up only blog. I have deleted various ideas and designs for my digital courses after nearly finishing them just because I didn’t like the way they turned out. And you know what that’s okay. Your first step may not be perfect or ideal but you’ll never know till you try it.

Before I took my first step towards blogging/coaching/podcasting/instagramming

1. I was excited in my body but I was extremely nervous to put my work out there.